Audre Lorde profoundly stated that caring for oneself is not an act of self-indulgence, but rather a crucial practice of self-preservation—a form of political resistance. She viewed self-care as a powerful way to defy societal expectations and take ownership of one's own well-being.
For Lorde, self-care was intrinsically linked to the struggle against oppressive systems, recognizing that personal well-being cannot be separated from the needs of the broader community. It wasn't about bubble baths or indulging in chocolates—it was about ensuring that we have the strength to fight together, like putting on your own oxygen mask before helping others.
In today's deeply polarized political climate, finding and cultivating a supportive community is more important than ever. As we face increasing division, the act of connecting with like-minded individuals who share our values, struggles and aspirations provides not only emotional resilience but also a collective strength that amplifies our ability to push for change.
My own chosen family serves as my sanctuary, where I find my solidarity, understanding and validation, counteracting the isolation that often comes with confronting societal injustices. It is within these spaces that we can exchange ideas, strategize and support each other's wellbeing—reminding us that we are not alone in our fight for justice and equality.
I think of Lorde's words as we reflect on the 2024 election results and prepare for the upcoming Utah legislative session. Montana lawmakers recently sent a clear message to Republicans nationwide, signaling that they are choosing to prioritize more pressing issues over attacking transgender people. I wonder if Rep. Kera Birkeland is listening, as she seems determined to waste our taxpayer dollars and time by once again targeting trans individuals this session.
Regardless of who won the 2024 election, our work was always going to be far from over. One outcome may have made more progress toward securing human rights, but the fight for justice continues.
The 2025 legislative session begins on January 21st. Make sure you know who your local representatives and senators are. When they don't hear from you, they assume your consent. Reach out—email, text, call—and stay informed about the bills that affect you and the people you care about.
I long for the days when our efforts were focused on issues like clean air, not defending basic rights—rights that should never be in question. But know this: you are not alone. We are in this together and there are many passionate advocates—especially angry mothers like me—ready to continue the fight alongside you.